I do apologize for there not being a column yesterday,
just sometimes it takes me longer to craft a story than one day. This one is
looking like it will be a bit long too, fair warning. Today is still a bit sluggish
but working on getting past it as best as I can. Coffee as usual is being a big
help in that. Still the procrastinator in me is trying to come out at every
turn, and I keep blocking him as best as I can. I haven’t succeeded in getting
out this week, but I am going to try again next week and see what happens. Also
going to add to it to try and work at my desk at least a couple times next
week. Going to add it to my to do list. Usually when I add things to there they
get done. Eventually it will be able to come off there and just be natural but
for now it will have to go there. Change is never easy after all and sometimes
it even has to come with a court ruling like it did yesterday.
And I applaud the Supreme Court’s Ruling. I know there
are some who are extremely unhappy with it as is the case with any ruling. But
what if it was them who was being told they couldn’t marry how would they feel
then. I think they would probably feel the same as the LBGTQ community. Of
course they would say it would never happen or that isn’t the same because
there right is by divine law. For once people try to pull your heads out of
your asses and try to see it from the perspective of someone else. Walk in the shoes
of someone else for once in your life. I understand not believing in it and no
one is asking you to have the service in your churches, they just want the
right to be legally married. Which is different from a church wedding though some
may get married in churches that allow it. But that is up to each individual
church to decide whether or not to allow.
Why is it so hard for us as a species to treat each other
civilly and with decency? We are always judging one another or putting someone
down it seems. I get that we can all do something that annoys others but that doesn’t
require putting them down for it. Just let them be or ask them to stop when
they are around you. If you don’t like someone just be civil when they are
around but don’t associate with them it is that simple. We don’t have to judge
everyone on what they do every second of every day.
I swear sometimes the world makes no sense to me. But I
am gradually learning to accept it for what it is as best as I can. Even as I
try to make a difference in it. And tomorrow I think I will be doing my view on
marriage as well in the spiritual column. For now feel free to leave comments
on what you think of the ruling and how you think humanity can improve. For now
I have a final project to get back to working on that is due this week. *Tips his
hat and walks out the door heading for the study.*
good one!
ReplyDeletePeople like to wrap their unease in religion. "I don't WANT to hate them, but God says I have to so ....there you go". My approach is hate whoever you like, just accept that the hatred is your own problem. Don't try to make it my problem or their problem. If you want to pretend it is your God's problem that is between you and your deity of choice.
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